Natural Hair Update

Hi! I know it has been a while since I have posted...my bad. All I can say is that my busyness got the best of me. Prayfully, you are well.

I want to give you a quick update on my Natural hair. It has been 19 months and I am still going strong. I battled last month with the thought of perming...wow, right? Well, of course, I decided against it! I was attempting to please my Bear and he responded to me by saying, "I've seen this way so long, that I have gotten used to the 'Fro." So since he was sooo understanding of my need for Nappturality, I straightened my hair...twice within two weeks! Y'all....let me tell you that it was a MISTAKE. I ended up getting ends clipped and all! This week before my shampoo, my hair was so brittle and fragile that it didn't make any sense. The slightest tug produced 5-6 strands of popped hair. To add insult to injury, my curl pattern is shot! So I had to deep condition to the utmost power and twist her down. Therefore, this week and probably the next will be Turban days. I really miss my pen coil curls... I learned something though, I can rock semi-straight hair, just not for two weeks straight. Well, it's time for dinner and a movie!

Until next time, be blessed!

love.KINKS Store

It's done!! I have officially opened my store for my brand love.KINKS jewelry. It is geared towards Natural hair sistas. I would like to thank my lil sis Tee (luvesuga) for her expertise in getting this project off the ground. Love you, girl. All the jewelry is hand-made by me and it was done with you in mind. Here's the site: http://lovekinks.bigcartel.com

Be blessed and happy shopping!

I'm Curious...

I am curious to know why people cheat and why they cheat with someone else's mate? This scenario played out with one man getting killed by his one nightstand's lover. Seriously? Could he not just beat him down? Or better yet, just leave it alone and dismiss himself? Now he's looking at a murder charge for an unfaithful mate. He did not think. It takes two to tangle. Nothing can happen if two people did not agree to make it happen. Violence is not the answer. Why lose your freedom when you can just move on? Now where will your happiness lie?

My Turban Naturally

100% Natural

Natural Work Day

My Natural Work Day

This was my look for work today. I truly enjoyed rocking my Kangol (so much fun to wear one)! It has a slightly vintage feel to it...and it adds to my swag. LOL I was asked today by my supervisor whether or not I wore uniforms in my old position. Uh, no, I didn't. She stated that since I started working there two months ago, my outfits and hair changed daily. Like I have some serious personas wanting to show. I had to let her know, this is who I am: Jai B. all day long. I don't believe in being boxed in, hence, that's why I am NATURAL. Everything about me should be unique. Even when it comes to my sanctification: We are "peculiar" people. I don't look or act like the next woman. God made me unique as He did for you. People have to find themselves. I have never been a follower of man's trends, but I began early in life setting my own. This intimidates a lot of people, but understand my goal. My personal duty is to be that leader so others can find their way to Christ and anywhere else they may need to be. Let a sista help you out! I am not boasting myself in no way, shape or form. I am confident that God has given me a gift that will edify Him. So I close with this: To God Be the Glory for all the things He has done!

Be blessed! Until next time...